If we don't water a plant, how long will it live ? If a very sick patient is not taken care of, will he recover ? Probably, his health will deteriorate. And if there is neither order nor discipline, will we reach the goals ?
When a person tells the other that he/she is in love and is loyal and makes a commitment, does he mean it, or is he saying only empty words ? When we look for the Divine Presence  do we do it because we need to overcome something mainly material and we want things to change and then we forget ?   This is very common. This is the cause of illnesses of many types and the spiritual is the most delicate. What happens is that is not taken care of, is not provided, is not sustained, because we are not taught. And the heart, the intention, the good debilitates, loses heart, agonizes and it is strange to say, that in order for Love not to die, he has to be alive. And, of course, Love always has to be alive and not in any kind of life, but in a quality life with surrender, dedication, filled with purpose and foundation. Throughout my work experience, I have found that what hurts the most is to consider that Love is automatic, self sustained and indifferent.
 Or to think that everything has been done, has been given in an instant. And Love, does not need to be renewed ? And I ask myself, does every human being need constant attention. Or should we eat once or should we breath once in our lifetime? Of course, the path is made by walking with constant steps. There is much sorrow and grief for the ones that do not try hard in their divine relationship with Love by surrendering and making it grow, every day.
How can we leave a child without a hug ? How can we leave the relationship pass without a kiss ? 
 How can we stop loving God for everything that He has given us?  We have to be conscious that Love requires of gratitude, consideration, appreciation  surrender. And what is Love and who is Love ?
 Love is everything : The air that we breathe, the earth that we step on, the food that we eat, all the beings around us, even the ones we will never meet. Because the journey of life must have as goal, the victory of realizing and the victory of living  Divine Love, who is, God as primordial source and the universe as a vast field, where to plant tenderness, care, happiness.
Because in order to live, we have to be real, we have to love diligently, with respect,  decision, responsibility and consciousness.