The romance of the example, lasts for some time but later disappears, gets bored, dies or goes away. This face is not defined, does not commit. Everything seems nice but finally the instability of character corrupts the relationship. It is like a beautiful raincoat of paper, that may hold the wind but under a strong and heavy rain, would disappear. But there is a more delicate situation that results from every experience.

The balance can be very destructive and the experience that started as a castle,  collapses and turns into a sword. There can be rage, rancor, bitterness which leave the person or persons,  confused, demoralized or what is worse, used to this type of experience.  And then, what will happen ? That person will be living through a lot of these experiences and his feelings and heart will become cold, calculating and indifferent. Another face of the coin is that the falling in love begins with the tenderness of the soul which makes her to feel attention, care, fondness, understanding and a filial respect which is real, spiritual and certainly material.

There is desire, passion but there is a feeling of home and continuity. Wind, rains, fires, losses or profits may come, but they will not be altered or affected.  The process of falling in love will grow and develop like a well care plant; that will give flowers, fruits and will last beyond death.